For a homeschooling Momma, the struggle is real. To be up, dressed, chores done, and ready at their desk at a decent time, is sometimes an amazing feat! When there is not a deadline of being in the car by a certain time to make it to school, it's easy to let the getting ready process drag out. We were running into that rut and we needed a way out!
After some brainstorming, I come up with 8:30 man! It's working well! When I call for my blessings to wake up in the morning and remind them of 8:30 man, they jump up and start moving!
So, here's how it works....I found a cartoon-y man online. I knew I wanted our prize to be a hike at a state park, so I found a man in hiking attire. I cut him into 7 pieces. But, I kept what 8:30 man is wearing a secret!
Every morning that my kiddos are up with their chore chart done and waiting at their desks with pencils ready by 8:30, they get to see a new part of 8:30 man. After 7 days of successfully being ready on time, they could see him all complete and figured out that their reward was to go on a hike!
They loved it! This was such a motivation for them!
They didn't quite achieve 8:30 man in 7 days. There was a morning they were a little slow moving and sleepy. I kept strictly to the exact time. They were disappointed, but ready the next day. Then, there was a day when one kiddo was slightly grouchy and not helping out....it was a good day to talk about teamwork and also doing your part. It was a good lesson learned and the next day they were ready to try again!
On the morning that 8:30 man was completed there was so much cheering and excitement! They truly worked hard and loved their reward!! Success!
Of course, 8:30 man could be 8:00 man, or 7:30 man....whatever works for you. For us, by the time we get dressed, eat breakfast, do devotions and chores and feed animals, 8:30 is a great goal!!
Today is Saturday, so no 8:30 man. When I woke up Micah this morning, he said, "Yay! I'm ready for 8:30 man!"
Kudos! This behavior modification technique works well with young children. It does require having a great reward at the end which they are keen to work for. Isn't it cool to see your children doing what you hope when you've come up with a cool idea? Have a great weekend Kami. xx
ReplyDeleteGreat idea! I might have to try that with my kids.
ReplyDeleteMy kids are older, and we tend to start a little later in the morning, but this is a great idea to motivate younger kids!
ReplyDeleteI love this idea, Kami!
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