I am so far behind in posting for my Heart of the Matter
Study. I mentioned I would do a post on
making practical the idea of having a heart that fears the Lord. So, even though I’m late, I still wanted to
share with you what the Lord has been teaching me.
I love the courage of
the Hebrew midwives of Egypt in the book of Exodus. Pharoah told them that if they deliver a baby
boy, then they needed to kill him, but if it’s a girl, they can let her
live. Can you imagine? What pressure they were under! I’m sure they had some fear of Pharoah and
the punishment he could deliver if they didn’t obey. But, you see in Exodus 1:17, that these midwives “feared God” and didn’t
obey the King of Egypt. It took a lot of
courage, but since they had a heart that feared the Lord, their desire was to
please the Lord, no matter the cost.
Just like checking to
see if that policeman is in our rearview mirror, we need to remember the Lord
is watching, and it should be Him we are wanting to please. But, too often we have more of a fear of man,
than of the Lord. We fear man’s
disapproval. We fear man not accepting
us. We simply regard what others have
to say above what God has to say. We
lack the courage that the Midwives had, to stand for the Lord. So, what are some of these times we fear man
more than God?
~When raising our children. Every Mommy out there has been given plenty of
advice concerning how to do things with her children. We hear so many warnings from the world about
raising our children to be socially accepted.
We’re supposed to train them to “fit in”. We’re supposed to make sure and let them
express themselves. We want them to have
the latest and greatest so they can have the approval of their friends. What does God have to say? I’m afraid we discount the importance of
training our child for the Lord and we focus too much on what “man” has to say.
I once heard Pastor Strange say that every parent needs to read the book of
Deuteronomy. There is so much
instruction in there! I want Deuteronomy
11:18 and 19 (Therefore shall ye lay up
these my words in your heart and in your soul, and bind them for a sign upon
your hand, that they may be as frontlets between your eyes. And ye shall teach
them your children, speaking of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when
thou walkest by the way, when thou liest down, and when thou risest up) and
Deuteronomy 32:46 ( And he said unto
them, Set your hearts unto all the words which I testify among you this day,
which ye shall command your children to observe to do, all the words of this
law) to be my theme for raising my children.
~When getting myself “ready” for the day. Think about the Proverbs 31 woman for a
moment. We know all the amazing things she
does, and of how she serves and loves her family and others. But, what about how she looks? There are only 3 verses that touch on her
outward appearance, but I still have a mental appearance of what she looks
like. I don’t think she was unkept,
frumpy, or flashy. I truly believe she
was a well put together woman. She was
well groomed and up to date. She was a
lady that honored the Lord, her husband, and her children with her
appearance. God does want us to keep
ourselves looking beautiful and attractive.
Our husbands need it! But, does
your appearance really reflect what the Lord wants? When we are immodest what is our goal? Attention of others? I can assure you, your husband does want you
to be attractive in public, but I don’t believe he wants you to show things
that are for his eyes only. Keep
yourself modest for your husband. One of the verses of the Proverbs 31 woman
says that strength and honor are her clothing.
Clothed in honor is a beautiful thought and one I want to be said about
me.
~In our daily schedule.
Of course we want to have a servant’s heart and be ready to help others
in a moment’s notice, but there does come a time when you have to say no. Even though we don’t want to believe it, we
really aren’t “Superwoman” We can’t do
it all. The world would have you to
believe that you should be doing more than just being a wife, mommy,
home-school teacher, etc. If we are not
careful, we can begin to fear man’s opinion.
Then we will begin to make more and more commitments and do more and
more trying to find fulfillment and approval.
It’s not going to work. I want to
prioritize my day in a way that reflects a heart that “fears the Lord.” He is watching and He is concerned with me
and how I live. It is He who wants me to
put my husband and family first!
~In our talk of the Lord.
Do you ever lack boldness when telling others of Christ? It’s easy to come up with excuses of why to
wait until the next time, or to put off being a witness. We can be worried we will stumble through our
words, or they will come up with a question we can’t answer. We’re worried we’ll offend someone. The disciples in the book of Acts had so much
boldness in telling others about the Lord.
They knew they were putting their lives in danger, yet they still
witnessed . Why? Because they did not fear what man could do
unto them…but they had a fear of the Lord!
Putting our excuses next to their boldness is a sad comparison. I want to tell others of Christ with love and
boldness. A heart that fears does this!
~Lastly, do I fear the Lord when disciplining my
children? I must remember that He is
present with me when I discipline my children and I want to please Him in all I
do. Am I calm? Am I patient? Do I lose my temper? Do I discipline in love?
I want to rememberthat the fear of the Lord starts by
recognizing that He is present with me all throughout my day!